Saturday, September 10, 2005

No Egress

THANKS TO EVERYONE

After my last blog entry, I had so many friends telling me that they didn’t want me to leave Tribe, I couldn’t go.  (I even had one person tell me, in no uncertain terms, that I was NOT to leave. OK, you can put the whip down.  I promise….I’m staying!)

I also received a few posts from friends who said stuff like, “Hey, I always reply when you write to me!”  And that’s true….some of my Tribe buddies are wonderful that way.  I’m sorry if it seemed like I implied that no one was answering my notes. 

The truth is, though, that there ARE several people that I really care for who never answer my posts anymore.  I see them posting on various tribes, they are still part of my network, but any notes I write to them might as well be lost in space.  It would be different if I didn’t care for these people so much….  If they’d at least drop me a brief note, or even msg me on Yahoo, I’d be a much happier camper.

So anyway, I guess you all are gonna be seeing me around Tribe, discussing astrology, flirting with the ladies, and in general looking for what mischief I can get into.  I’ll keep on moderating my tribes, too:

Intensity

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Triple Fire - Aries/Leo/Sagittarius

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S.L.U.T.S.

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Zee Tribe


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Tinas Nibbilicious Tribe

And as long as I’m mentioning this tribe, I want to say that, even though Tina and I did not work out, I think the world of her, she is a wonderful, very special lady, and I hope to always be able to call her friend.

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Sunday, September 4, 2005

Feeling The Urge to Disappear

I woke up this morning with the urge to unsubscribe from Tribe.  Didn’t act on it….but the urge hasn’t left me.  I’m hoping it will go away and not get stronger.



Some really wonderful people on Tribe.  I’ve really grown to care a lot for some of them.



But I have a quirk. Call it an insecurity if you’d prefer. 



I often send out tribe messages to friends in my network.  And about half the time I don’t receive a reply at all, even though I see them posting on various threads.  The rest of the time, it may be days before I get a reply.



And recently, it seems to be happening more and more often that I don’t get a reply at all.

Not even a quick “Got your note, really busy, will get back to you when I have more time.”



I wrote to a bunch of people over the past 5 days…..and only one has replied.  A couple of them, I wrote to a second time…still no reply….even though they were posting on two or three tribes I belong to.



I’m sure they all have good reasons.  But my quirk, or insecurity, is that I like two-one communication.  I like to hear back from friends. And when I don’t hear back from 8 or 9 friends, I get the urge to just disconnect, go off by myself. Unsubscribe. 



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